Hello Lovers,
For the next installment of D. Layne In Perspective. I would like to talk about space…the final frontier, or so it seems. I’m not speaking of space in the extraterrestrial sense, I would like to speak of this phenomenon in the esoteric sense. The personal or emotional space that is only to be understood by oneself. The space that we let our friends into, our family, and eventually our lovers into. It seems as though there is an arcane energy surrounding us that some would call personal space.

I use the term space invaders facetiously, yet I am referring to those people in dating situations that may cross personal boundaries without even realizing that they are doing so, and may also be destroying the very fibers that they are attempting to build upon in the midst. What causes this blind ambition to take us into that crazy zone in which we push the ones we love so far that they usually turn and run? Who are these overbearing folk? The “Habitual Line Steppers” as Charlie Murphy would say.

What makes this okay? Is it a temporary state of insanity that us lovers go through? For us to impose ourselves on the ones we care about with the actions of our crazy little hearts. What makes a person think that they truly can’t live without another human being? Are relationships symbiotic by nature? Is there an ethereal connection of souls between people that the threat of a severance could cause mental damage.

All of these questions, we can pose to ourselves and run in circles chasing the tails of our own answers.

Bottom line here lovers, is that we need to recognize these people immediately…And R..L..H…RUN LIKE HELL! There is no need to be dealing with overbearing people in your life. We should never feel like your back is against the wall in a supposedly “loving” situation.

I’m going to cut this one short, however you get my drift. There is very little room for overbearing lovers in the world of successful relationships.

That’s my perspective lovers and I’m sticking to it.

-D. Layne-